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SEXY OR SEXUAL ROLE PLAY TO TRY AS A COUPLE

Sexy (or frankly sexual!) role-playing games are a good idea to try out as a couple. If you feel like your sex life has become a bit routine, and you're not enjoying it, role-playing might be a good time to share.

Couple role-playing: intimacy… and trust!

By projecting yourself into someone else's skin, you change your mind, you spice up your daily life... and above all, playing as a couple can strengthen the bond with your partner.

It is about eroticism, yes! But also… trust, and sharing. Delivering your erotic imagination to your partner means exposing yourself emotionally (before removing your clothes in real life…). A sex game is a good way to wake up your libido, yes, but it's not that that.

So, like anything that involves indulging and sharing intimate things… there are some tips to follow!

The golden rules of “sex” games as a couple

Trust and respect will be the two key words of this experience. As with bondage or BDSM, respect for consent is essential. When you outline the scenario and the roles you want to play, also agree on a “safe word” that means you want the game to stop.

Discuss the direction you want to go, and where you would like to arrive. This leaves room for the unexpected, but if your end goal is "making love on the washing machine" and your partner's is "invite the neighbors and end up 4 naked on the balcony in full view of all”, it is a nuance that is worth clarifying in advance!

Of course, we do not film or photograph someone who has not expressly said that he or she wishes it. And we absolutely never post these images on the internet! (This is not just advice, but a reminder of the law! Sharing pornographic content without consent, or more commonly doing "revenge porn", is punishable by two years in prison and a €60,000 fine[ 1].)

Sexual games: good humor

There is a psychological level to cross: you have to manage to “get into the game”. If the other is 100% in character, and you don't take things seriously, he or she might feel betrayed… How do you avoid that? Well, by communicating, above all. If you can't “play”, it may be that you don't want to, that you're not in the right state of mind… and then, there's no need to force yourself. Never mind ! You will try next time! Maybe on the phone? This can be a great way to try something new if you're in a long-distance relationship. Go for “classic” sex instead…or do something completely different. Intimacy is not just sex!

Erotic role-playing games: it's up to you

If you realize that you both like sexual role play, you can, if you wish, invest in accessories, sex toys, costumes... But sexual role play is also practiced without additional objects ( apart of course from condoms, dental dams and lubricating gel) or specific clothing: it all depends on the direction the scenario takes! You can play on the reversal of roles, or by embodying the characters from your favorite fictions (books, films or series)... in a new configuration, prohibited for those under 18!

Of course, there are the classic fantasies to embody: making love in an unusual place, or playing the fireman and the beautiful lonely woman waiting for him in a negligee (sometimes it's in the old pots that we make the best soups). But it's also an opportunity to try new things, to move away from clichés, and to "play" an emotion or a desire that we don't usually allow ourselves. Let your imagination play! The priority, after all, is to have fun.